Archive for December, 2012

Happy New Year

December 31, 2012  |  My Thought Bank  |  No Comments

Lif is short

Inspiring Stones for XMAS!!

December 20, 2012  |  Creativity  |  5 Comments
Sam made the clay stones

Sam made the clay stones

Great to lift someone’s spirits or your OWN too.. I wanted to place these in a bowl by the front door or even on my coffee table.. But I have placed them in one of my candle trays. (Don’t look too bad i guess)..

The only thing with clay is you have to wait until it is dry and hard enough, to use paints on it. The other thing you can do is buy a bag of rocks from any Home Center store and paint them which are way smoother to work on. Only remember to soak them in soapy water and wash and dry them properly.  Paint them with a base coat and once they are dry you are ready to paint them with any acrylics paint and use various types of brushes depending on what you want to write or just draw.

I can’t wait to try that out myself..

Happy Crafty Weekend to All!

and i just shaped and painted them

and i just shaped and painted them

Mummy Claus!

December 19, 2012  |  Rants and Raves  |  2 Comments
My red paper Cups

My red paper Cups

Well! Have you done or planned any leisure time with your children this Christmas so far? If not, now is the time… Look what I made – CUPCAKES!! And guess how my son contributed to it – by eating them and taking the whole lot to school for his picnic….

Sam: Mom can you make some more, one boy was begging for more cox his mom gives him the same sandwich everyday…

Hmnnn… Kids will be kids – wonder what my son says on normal days… But you know what these innocent dialogues are priceless and guess what I am going to bake some more. I have to admit the last lot I just wanted to finish the batter, so I over poured in the paper cups and they were a bit out of shape.. But the wonderful thing is – they are all over!!!!

The Mix is ready..

The Mix is ready..

All ready to be poured into..

All ready to be poured into..

Caramel Cupcakes - All together in one go...

Caramel Cupcakes – All together in one go…

IIn the Oven

In the Cave, warm and nice.

Feeling Xmassy!!

December 18, 2012  |  Creativity, My Thought Bank  |  No Comments

So i am all set for Xmas, and i cant help but feel Xmassy….

Aren't they so Adorable

Aren’t they so Adorable

Go Green with Red

Go Green with Red

Salt and Pepper

Salt and Pepper

The whole Jing Bang

The whole Jing Bang

Happy!

Happy!

My Skinny Reindeers....

My Skinny Reindeers….

My Candle Stand

My Candle Stand

My Glittering Candle

My Glittering Candle

Santa Sock

Santa Sock

My Kitchen

My Kitchen

My Oven (red) knobs

My Oven (red) knobs

My XMASSY Candle Trees

My XMASSY Candle Trees

Look what hes got

Look what hes got

My Favourite Butterfly deco

My Favourite Butterfly deco

Now How cute is that!!

Now How cute is that!!

These a few of my favourite little things around the house… and now cant wait to post pics about my bigger favourite Xmassy Stuff!! Happy Days!!

Basic Ingredients for XMAS!!

December 16, 2012  |  My Thought Bank  |  No Comments

Gifts of time and love are surely the basic ingredients of a truly Merry Christmas season….

It is Christmas in the heart that puts Christmas in the air. Make it Special for that someone special…

Countdown to XMAS!!

December 15, 2012  |  My Thought Bank  |  No Comments

Can’t wait to see what Santa gets me 🙂 or the snow man.. he’s cuter..

Love Being a Single MOM

December 12, 2012  |  Rants and Raves  |  1 Comment

It’s been so long again and I keep shillyshally! I keep writing and not posting but I guess it’s time to get back in action and so I wanted to share this …on 12/12/12…. I know it’s kinda long but hey what the hell – Happy Reading!!

Well it is not a bed of roses to raise a child single handedly; however it’s up to the individual to take it as a blessing or to keep ranting about it… Personally I have learnt that it is indeed a blessing. There are a lot of upsides to being a single mom and the extra ordinary experiences that emerge from bringing up your child alone… (no doubt at times it totally frustrating and you wish they was someone to just take over for a bit like even an hour – just so you don’t have to run to the stationary shop at 10pm or run to buy a pair of white shoes for school PE or take him for a haircut or someone who could actually stand up and make a point without ME having to feel bad all the time or even, not having to hook up the TV/ video or ps3 cables for him…)

It’s definitely not easy being a single mom but here is how I look at it:

1. I share a closer bond with my son.

Although it is true that boys are closer to mom and daughter are closer to Dads however solo parenting does not leave you with that choice – you love your one and only be it a girl or a boy or even more than one. My son can trust me fully and depend on me and that’s a wonderful feeling. I can proudly say that I have been there for him since he was born and I kinda taught him everything he knows. I witnessed the first smile, the first letter, the sound the steps and annoying yet heart melting crying and those things you cannot relive. I am his mom and I am his dad.

2. I feel like a supermom

And I can only talk for myself or help other single mom’s change they perspective if be it. I have people asking me all the time “How do u do it”, “It must be difficult” and it makes me feel rather silly cox, “I just do it”, I wouldn’t know the difference of not doing it”… This is my life and I am used to it and I am content, happy and also confident.” And I can tell from the look on my son’s face that somehow my hard work, scarifies, love, protecting and my attitude has only made him a happy child too (and a very friendly and lovely too).

3. Yes there days when they are younger and crankier and more issues but now when he’s turned ten already, he is all grown up, he understands me better, he’s more concerned about my whereabouts and likes and dislikes and my moods and even what color lipstick should I wear…or maybe I should wear the blue frock (yes he calls it’s a frock and not a dress “giggles”) I can look back 10 years and feel proud that I have come a long way on my own and it is the best feeling ever.

4. Although I have to thank my immediate family and very close friends (more like family) that have been there for me – a few have come and gone and a few have still hung around and many more have added… It is very important to have a reliable and close knitted group of people you can bank on. And thanks to them we end up having a bigger family and thus it is not hard at all being a single mom.

5. Then I have my mom who thinks how am I ever going to make it thru at different stages in my life being a single mom, but I get a lot of encouraging words, moral support and unconditional love from certain people, that make all my worries vanish and makes me a stronger woman internally and more on the outside…

6. And now the kool part is that I am my own boss in my own house especially even more so if you are not sharing the custody of your child with his/her father. Cox at the end of the day it’s your call (be it right or wrong) you have the freedom to make those important decisions.. My son cannot turn around and tell me “Hmmnnnn – let me ask Daddy or he will do it for me or I will go ask him”.. Plus even my son doesn’t have to think about who do I love more or who’s gonna get me the better gift or Dad is in a bad mood or mom and dad are forever fighting and stuff like that.. He knows what to expect from me and I know how much to spoil him..

7. As a single mom and a mother I need to keep both my son and myself safe at all times. So no abusive or unhealthy environment at home is allowed (which generally happens in the case if men are around – they want to drink, they bring they office stress home, throw they weight around, call friends at any time of the night over, the manly talk and abusive language)

8. I don’t mean to belittle or demean any Dads or men – I am just stating how I love being a single mom and it means everything to me that I am the reason my child feels loved and I am capable of providing all the emotional security. So all you single mom’s out there you guys are doing a brilliant job, it’s never going to be easy and at times your children will refuse to even acknowledge you but deep down in their hearts they know that it YOU who has always been they from them and no one else. They will be your friends; it’s only up to you how you make them your BEST friends!

9. All said and done, I wish him all the success in his life, of course a typical parent (mom) always wanting him to accomplish more and want more for him and all of that but I might not say this quite often I am grateful for all that he is and for all that he does..

10. My friends even call him my Manager or my Bodyguard or someone who doesn’t let me do anything without him knowing or approving it first… Now with him around who needs a bigger family…? I can hardly handle him!!

Live and let Live

December 6, 2012  |  My Thought Bank  |  1 Comment