Bitter Truths You can’t Avoid

“Everyone, at some point in their lives, wakes up in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world, and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love them, and that they will never have a decent night’s sleep again and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless landscape, hoping desperately that their circumstances will improve, but suspecting, in their heart of hearts, that they will remain unloved forever. The best thing to do in these circumstances is to wake somebody else up, so that they can feel this way, too.”

Positive Difference

[pullquote sid=”pullquote-1321474981″ type=”3″]Whether the day is gray or whether it is sunny, you can make a difference. If others support you or if they conspire to stand in your way, you can make a difference. If you have plenty of Resources available to you or if you have very few, you can make a difference. If Momentum is on your side or if it is not, you can make a difference. You can wait and hope for things to go your way. Or you can get busy and make it Happen. You can complain that life has been terribly unfair. Or you can move Ahead anyway and Achieve what you intend, no matter what the Obstacles may be. You can plead with others to give you a break. Or you can go ahead and forge your own path to Success. Wherever you may be, whatever may have happened, you can make a Positive Difference. Live with Commitment, decide to move forward no matter what, and you will.[/pullquote]

Lost Time

[pullquote sid=”pullquote-1321474668″ type=”3″]As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down… probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing too fast and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you have never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back.[/pullquote]

Lipstick contains fish scales

Yeah, lipstick contains fish scales. I came around this interesting fact and then researched about it a bit more and guess what i found? Some of them, anyway. The ingredient known as Pearl Essence. (Some sources give this as “pearlescence.”) It’s the silvery stuff found in fish scales that’s used in some lipsticks, nail polishes, ceramic glazes, etc., to make them shimmery. Pearl essence is obtained primarily from herring (valuable flesh of fatty fish from shallow waters of northern Atlantic or Pacific). What was alarming to me to discover that consumer products contain animal body parts. Most of us are strict Non Vegetarians and we eat dead, frozen, raw animals everyday !!!! So how can you think the fishermen or the industry will let ‘pearl essence’ to go to waste?

From the WEB : How pearl essence is harvested: “The purse seine draws the herring up from the bottom and into an ever-decreasing circle, where the pumper [boat] pumps the fish out, and into the hold of the buyer’s boat. In the meantime, due to thrashing in the seine and going through the pumper, nearly all of the herring scales are removed and diverted into bags on the pumper’s deck.” This is perhaps not the world’s kindest process. Pearl essence is just one of a long list of unsuspected animal ingredients in cosmetics. If you think fish scales in lipstick is gross, get a load of cerebrosides, used in skin-care products to create a smoother skin surface, increase moisture retention, heighten “luminosity,” etc. According to the Food and Drug Administration, “the raw material for cerebrosides in cosmetics comes from cattle, oxen, or swine brain cells or other nervous-system tissues.” Eww. If you’re bothered by this sort of thing you might prefer to get your cosmetics from environmentally aware companies such as Aveda. In addition to minimizing the use of synthetics and volatiles, Minneapolis-based Aveda relies on plant- rather than animal-based ingredients. “Some colors, for example, are very difficult to create without using carmine, but the company decided that crushing insects to derive the ingredient is unethical,” we read. One smiles, but in the era of the rape of the rain forest it’s charming to hear about a company so good-hearted that it wouldn’t hurt–well, if not a fly, at least a Dactylopius coccus