Happy thinking and Happy Countdown to 2015!!
When you show someone how you make them feel, it is creative and genuine. However when you just use words and tell someone how you feel, it might mean nothing but just a habit or expectation. You can say two words or the three words, any combination of words do not give you the rare experience of actually feeling what someone will do for you; the situation can be a happy one, a sad one, a challenge or even an opportunity. When you do something for a loved one, it is the combination of efforts, comfort, well-being, self-assurance, wonder and admiration.
People have issues. Ok!! I agree I am being rude. However having said that I have being in situations where you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I have seen and come across many loved ones, friends, acquaintances, strangers to believe and imagine rather assume total bullshit about others and me, unwillingly to investigate the facts and walk away feeling convinced without a question. As a result this leads to pain, alienation, suffering, low morale, hurt, agony and so on..
Your judging the other person (victims) who according to you are not worthy of loving or even understanding but they are left sheltering their insecurities and fears in a shell. Some of us can be doing this involuntary without realizing it.
So, please pay a lot of attention to your words. Words have a lasting ripple effect. Listen first, then speak.
Be Kind. Laugh it off, but don’t always have to carry a chip on your shoulder.
I do not care what car you drive, where you live. If you know someone who knows someone who knows someone. If you clothes are this years cutting edge. If your trust fund is unlimited. If you are A-list, B-list or never heard of you list. I only care about the words that flutter from your mind. They are the only thing you truly own. The only thing I will remember you by. I will not fall in love with your bones and skin. I will not fall in love with the places you have been. I will not fall in love with anything but the “words” that flutter from your extraordinary mind.