Can you relate to this? Do you ever feel this way? Do share your views!!


“The most important things are the hardest to say. They are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them, words shrink things that seemed limitless when they were in your head to no more than living size when they’re brought out. But it’s more than that, isn’t it? The most important things lie too close to wherever your secret heart is buried, like landmarks to a treasure your enemies would love to steal away. And you may make revelations that cost you dearly only to have people look at you in a funny way, not understanding what you’ve said at all, or why you thought it was so important that you almost cried while you were saying it. That’s the worst, I think. When the secret stays locked within not for want of a tellar but for want of an understanding ear.”

Stephen King, Different Seasons

Happy thinking and Happy Countdown to 2015!!

Show or Tell

When you show someone how you make them feel, it is creative and genuine. However when you just use words and tell someone how you feel, it might mean nothing but just a habit or expectation. You can say two words or the three words, any combination of words do not give you the rare experience of actually feeling what someone will do for you; the situation can be a happy one, a sad one, a challenge or even an opportunity. When you do something for a loved one, it is the combination of efforts, comfort, well-being, self-assurance, wonder and admiration.

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Friday thoughts

People have issues. Ok!! I agree I am being rude. However having said that I have being in situations where you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I have seen and come across many loved ones, friends, acquaintances, strangers to believe and imagine rather assume total bullshit about others and me, unwillingly to investigate the facts and walk away feeling convinced without a question. As a result this leads to pain, alienation, suffering, low morale, hurt, agony and so on..

Your judging the other person (victims) who according to you are not worthy of loving or even understanding but they are left sheltering their insecurities and fears in a shell. Some of us can be doing this involuntary without realizing it.

So, please pay a lot of attention to your words. Words have a lasting ripple effect. Listen first, then speak.

Be Kind. Laugh it off, but don’t always have to carry a chip on your shoulder.


In love with your words

I do not care what car you drive, where you live. If you know someone who knows someone who knows someone. If you clothes are this years cutting edge. If your trust fund is unlimited. If you are A-list, B-list or never heard of you list. I only care about the words that flutter from your mind. They are the only thing you truly own. The only thing I will remember you by. I will not fall in love with your bones and skin. I will not fall in love with the places you have been. I will not fall in love with anything but the “words” that flutter from your extraordinary mind.